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  • author ( 73, woman | Cedar Lake, IN, USA )

    Its ok to drink as long as you don't drive. When I go out with friends that drink I will order something I absolutely hate the taste of, then I don't drink more than a sip. That way everyone thinks I am drinking with the...  see more >>

  • author ( 74, woman | Indianapolis, IN, USA )

    I think a long lunch would be a great way to get to know the basics about each other. Then we can see where our first meeting takes us.

  • author ( 75, woman | Melbourne, FL, USA )

    Light lunch and conversation, drinks and get to know each other, see what we have in common and see if we want to be friends or go further with a relationship.

  • author ( 82, woman | Charlotte, NC, USA )

    Meet for lunch in a public restaurant, but one with enough privacy that our conversation is between just us. Not a noisy place, but one with good atmosphere and maybe soft music in the background. If we hit it off, we ca...  see more >>

  • author ( 72, woman | Little Rock, AR, USA )

    I would like to meet in a restaurant for lunch so that we can talk honestly and listen actively to get to know each other, not only with our talk but with our hearts.

  • author ( 66, woman | Montgomery, AL, USA )

    Would prefer any public place where we can to get to know one another a bit more before deciding if we have enough similar interests to pursue dating.

  • author ( 64, man | Morrow, GA, USA )

    I like to talk first on the phone and get to know each other and if we like what we hear from each other I like to meet her for lunch in a public Place where she is comfortable with the surroundings.

  • author ( 74, woman | Nanaimo, BC, CAN )

    I enjoy walks and the sound of nature, the waves on the ocean are extremely relaxing. I do not want to meet any one who is not sincere in their quest for a friendship and possible long term. I do appreciate honesty, inte...  see more >>

  • author ( 80, woman | Saint Francis, MN, USA )

    Meet up for some lunch, just to get a chance to meet. If we are a match then move on to a dinner date.

  • author ( 80, woman | Peoria, AZ, USA )

    Anything from burgers to sushi. A great first date is a wonderful conversation with a wealth of life experience to share.

  • author ( 78, man | Brick, NJ, USA )

    First meeting should be casual, easy going and in a very public setting, hence I suggest a lunch at a mutually agreeable spot.

  • author ( 78, man | Pittsboro, NC, USA )

    At first I would just love to meet just for a quick lunch or supper. I want to make sure that we like each others company first, this way we do not waste each others time. My wife passed a few years ago, but I am missing...  see more >>

  • author ( 60, woman | Washington, DC, USA )

    I think a lunch is a good first date, then if it goes well, you have the rest of the day to get to know each other.

  • author ( 72, woman | Green Valley, AZ, USA )

    Would like to have a nice lunch at a cafe or a nice out-door sitting area with the sun and blue sky above us.

  • author ( 65, man | Idaho Falls, ID, USA )

    A first date should be simple, lunch, a walk on the greenbelt or somewhere else. Something casual where we can talk and get to know each other.