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  • View author's info ( 70, Man | Bristol, England - Gloucestershire, GBR )

    Now the pubs have opened we could go to somewhere like the Traveller's Rest and have a meal and a drink or just a drink to get to know one another. I don't think flowers and candlelight make any difference to whether or...  see more >>

  • View author's info ( 54, Woman | Kirksville, MO, USA )

    Our first date should be in public but not a large loud crowd type place. Somewhere that we can visit and get to know each other better. Somewhere we both agree is a good place that we can be comfortable and at ease in m...  see more >>

  • View author's info ( 66, Man | San Diego, CA, USA )

    Let’s meet for drinks and get to know each other. If we’re a good match then we’ll take it from there!

  • View author's info ( 68, Woman | Ottawa, ON, CAN )

    Lets meet for a drink maybe somewhere quiet so we can talk about anything & everything. Get to know each other see if we click.

  • View author's info ( 67, Woman | New York, NY, USA )

    My first date should be casual to see if there are crucial things in common and of course a possibility for chemistry. Chemistry can grow so my rule is 2-3 dates to see if there is a future. I'm seeking a serious relatio...  see more >>

  • View author's info ( 63, Man | Cleveland, OH, USA )

    I like to keep the first date flexible. If we share a common fun loving sexual interest the rest should be free flowing. We could spend hours talking about our life stories, you know, the ones we have told our friends so...  see more >>

  • View author's info ( 72, Woman | Goldsboro, NC, USA )

    A first date must be in a quiet place so that we could talk and get to know each other such as a quiet diner. It could be having a nice meal followed by a nice walk in a nearby park or anywhere that allows us to hear eac...  see more >>

  • View author's info ( 71, Woman | Mount Laurel, NJ, USA )

    I think first date/meet should be either for coffee or a drink---keep it short, and we both agree (or disagree) to get together again.

  • View author's info ( 75, Woman | Edmonton, AB, CAN )

    Somewhere public that is quiet enough to talk. Enjoying a glass of red white on an outdoor patio if possible.

  • View author's info ( 76, Woman | Denver, CO, USA )

    I think a happy hour with a glass of wine is a good ice breaker... Just a chance to see if there is that spark of interest and a way to relax on that first date.

  • View author's info ( 52, Woman | Manchester, England - Greater Manchester, GBR )

    An intimate and cosy restaurant where they don't rush you. I good bottle of wine (or whatever), soft music either in the room or in an adjacent lounge, a wrap-around booth rather than sitting across the table. Good conve...  see more >>

  • View author's info ( 56, Woman | Pittsfield, MA, USA )

    A casual drink and great conversation getting to know each other. A lot of smiles and laughs is always a good start.

  • View author's info ( 60, Woman | Waterloo, IA, USA )

    Nice bar / restaurant for a casual meet and greet. I am very outgoing and need the same in a date. A witty guy is a plus

  • View author's info ( 69, Woman | Nashville, TN, USA )

    Would love to meet for drinks and maybe a bite to eat. Someplace casual but not loud. Conversation and laughs.

  • View author's info ( 64, Man | Tarrytown, NY, USA )

    Something low key, meet for drinks talk a bit, to get to where we can reduce the first meeting jitters, hopefully the conversation lasts long enough and is enjoyable so as to turn the drinks into a walk and talk, or a me...  see more >>