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  • View author's info ( 65, Man | Belleville, ON, CAN )

    I'm open to enjoying a beverage or light lunch together as a first meeting. I would be okay should we decide to continue on with another activity, such as a walk, shopping, or some ideas you may have.

  • View author's info ( 68, Man | Anchorage, AK, USA )

    Will we ever be free for coffee again? Can we talk with a mask? Well life always has its changes. I just go with the flow

  • View author's info ( 55, Woman | IN, USA )

    Just a quick meet up to learn if we have chemistry to plan another date. Nothing to serious, I do not want to move fast.

  • View author's info ( 75, Woman | PA, USA )

    For the first meet, coffee or light meal somewhere fairly quiet, smoke-free, so conversation isn’t interrupted. If there's a distance between us, we could choose a halfway location.

  • View author's info ( 81, Woman | Louisville, KY, USA )

    We should meet for coffee, you can tell a lot about a person over a cup of coffee. No strings attached.

  • View author's info ( 80, Man | Mount Pleasant, SC, USA )


  • View author's info ( 70, Woman | Colorado Springs, CO, USA )

    Meeting at a cafe, something easy, for coffee, tea, to have a chance to learn more about each other.....

  • View author's info ( 72, Woman | Mount Pleasant, MI, USA )

    I have some questions I found somewhere to start interesting conversations. I tried them when two friends had breakfast with me on my birthday, and they worked well. We can start with those. :-)

  • View author's info ( 64, Man | Barrington, RI, USA )

    Meeting over a cup of coffee late in the afternoon. No pressure and if things progressed, a quick bite to eat and a casual spot. If things didn't, we could go our separate ways.

  • View author's info ( 61, Man | Yulee, FL, USA )

    Coffee place other than SB to be able to actually talk. If near a beach even better. I can sip coffee and hold my shoes at the same time!

  • View author's info ( 65, Man | Beaverton, OR, USA )

    For our first date, which is getting to know each other, let's meet on a Saturday afternoon around 3:00 pm at a nice comfortable coffee shop of your choosing, or I can choose if you prefer. Enjoy a few hours in conversat...  see more >>

  • View author's info ( 76, Woman | Greensboro, NC, USA )

    It might seem simple but I really like the opportunity to sit across the table from someone and connect through conversation first. I like to have a chance to get past the posing pretty fast and move into sharing our our...  see more >>

  • View author's info ( 53, Woman | Tacoma, WA, USA )

    Meeting at a dog park and letting the pups run around... always entertaining. So much less pressure than a dinner date. Now for a second date I wouldn't mind getting a little dressed up...

  • View author's info ( 72, Woman | Hoosick Falls, NY, USA )

    First of all I would prefer if my date lived closer than 100 miles. If we want to be spontaneous & go grab lunch it would be much better if you lived nearby. I believe in first impressions although we'll both be nervous...  see more >>

  • View author's info ( 50, Woman | North Las Vegas, NV, USA )

    Coffee meet & greets are my preference for an initial meeting. If there's chemistry then move forward.